From our readers: Is my Ulduar-clearing guild holding me back?

I’d like to take a minute to address the concerns of one of our readers. Since my return to WoW Insider, I’ve been focusing on sanity, progression, and congruence. Dear WoW Insider: I need help, and I figure between me and that guy in the last Breakfast Topic, I‘d have more than a good chance of you guys having suggestions to my current dilemma. I‘m fairly new to WoW, having started in December 2008, after a long stint on FFXI. I was glad I made the move, and I haven’t looked back. I toyed with a few classes before settling on a blood elf rogue. I zoomed through classic, Burning Crusade and have now made Northrend my home. I hit 80 a couple of months ago, and although many guilds have offered for me to join along the way, I always replied that my brother’s guild was going to take me in as soon as I turned 80. I‘ve been with them on a few heroics and even saw the inside of Sunwell as my first raid ever, although I must confess all that left me feeling a little bit bewildered as I didn’t really know what was happening most of the time. I was constantly asking for help, asking where I should stand and what not. While most of the guild